Finding Ways to Communicate with Clients About Their Symptoms By Tom Medlar, LMHC on 4/25/24 - 8:13 AM

Some nursing homes tend to have few, if any, residents with major mental illnesses. There are other facilities that have many residents with a mental illness, and those are the nursing homes where I prefer to work.
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Many of the clients I see for psychotherapy have a long history of mental illness. Few, though, report having been educated in helpful ways about the symptoms of their condition. When education has been presented, it may have been in technical language that might be perplexing or off-putting for the client. Finding ways to communicate effectively and sympathetically with a client requires artful attunement to the inner experiences of that person.

A 50-year-old lady with a diagnosis of anxiety, described her symptoms as “sweats, shaking, very nervous, and feeling pulled away from things.” A 72-year-old lady movingly described depression as “a heavy something that weighs on your brains, and you can’t think beyond that feeling — until someone helps bring you out of it.”

Asking someone to describe the symptoms of a mental health condition can be a helpful way to begin the process of deepening and clarifying their self-understanding. It can also be helpful to use some of the language and concepts of the client as a starting point, while avoiding sole reliance on technical jargon about mental illness. I’ve found that many clients have developed a defensive deafness to such language, anyway.

Helping Clients Understand their Symptoms

One way that I approach conversations with clients about their conditions and symptoms is through an exploratory series of questions:

How do you know when you are experiencing depression, (anxiety, bipolar symptoms, difficulty telling the difference between things real and unreal)?

How do others know when you are feeling depressed (anxious)?

Do you sometimes feel depressed, anxious, or have mood changes, or have maybe unreal experiences and others don’t notice?

What might others need to pick up on to recognize when you feel depressed, anxious, or afraid?

In general, individuals experiencing anxiety and/or depression may be interested in and receptive to education and discussion about their symptoms.

Yet many persons with a schizophrenic illness might deny the condition and rationalize the symptoms — due to stigma and shame, and due to limited capacity for logical reasoning. “I don’t have schizophrenia, I’m psychic; I get psychic attacks,” suggested Martha, who, nonetheless, is sometimes willing in therapy to directly acknowledge her schizophrenia, and her peculiar experiences as being symptoms.

Therapeutically educating a client about symptoms of schizophrenia might start with distinguishing things that are subjectively real from those that are objectively real. We might discuss inner perceptions and beliefs that may be real subjectively but may not be objectively real. Some already feel as though they live in a separate and inward world, somewhat apart from others.

Recently, I have begun experimenting with using a Venn diagram of three overlapping circles to illustrate differences between subjective and objective experiences. The first circle, on the right, is labeled as the client’s inner, or subjective world. In that circle are listed several of the specific symptomatic experiences already discussed in therapy, that the person might confuse as being real. The second circle, on the left, is labeled as the outer, or objective world. The overlapping middle circle represents the client and me in therapy, looking into each world to make connections and distinctions. Here is a compilation of some selected items from the right-hand circle for five clients: psychic attacks, mind-boggling thoughts, curses and accusations made by voices, paranoid thinking, anger, depression, anxiety, my make-believe world, messages received from the TV or radio or unseen persons. The list in the left-hand circle would include the facility, medical and psychiatric diagnoses, and related care and treatments.

I draw arrows to show, for example, how the experiences in the inner world circle are symptoms of the psychiatric diagnosis in the outer world circle, and how medications and psychotherapy from the outer world circle are intended to address the symptoms. Clients have shared poignant responses to lessons learned from this approach.

Cameron said, “This helps me understand mental illness. I feel relieved when we talk like this. I get it mentally, about what’s going on.”

Betty said that “Nobody ever told me this. It makes me understand what’s going on in my head better.”

“That means we’re on the same page, I appreciate that,” suggested Martha. “You understand what it’s like for me.”

Richard said, “Sometimes I think it’s real, and sometimes I don’t; it’s hard to tell. It relieves my mind when we talk about it.”

Donald said that “I’ve gotten a lot more mature and rehabilitated talking to you, Tom. I just don’t know what to say sometimes. It’s a big thing for me to get up to this level of reality. It’s your words that make me feel I’ve turned.”

For multiple reasons, it can be difficult to educate people with schizophrenia about the psychiatric nature of their subjective experiences. I had the impulse to try the Venn diagram with one client, and his response encouraged me to try it with a few others, as well.

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I don’t use this approach with all clients, as some may be too delusional at the time to experience benefit. The people I have tried this with each showed some willingness to question the validity of their unusual subjective perceptions and beliefs. So far, I have only tried this approach with these five clients, and I have been pleasantly surprised, and touched, by their responses. Other therapists may wish to experiment, as well, with this simple, yet promising technique.

Questions for Thought and Discussion
What is your reaction to this therapist’s approach to explaining symptoms to clients?
What methods have you used to help clients understand their psychiatric symptomatology
With which clients might this approach be effective? With which others might it not?


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