“Couples suffer when a partner turns to pornography, and stops sharing their sexual energy in intimacy. Emotionally Focused Therapy helps couples process the unique attachment injuries caused by porn addiction. Sex therapists and couples’ therapists, along with students and educators will find this video useful.”
—Carlos Del Rio, PhD, Couples and Family Therapist, Assistant Professor of Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Bellevue University
“Very helpful in delineating the layers of emotional vulnerability and relational connectedness that are necessary to work through the pain that porn addiction can have on relationships. An informative video for any clinician trying to navigate how to humanize the use of porn as a self-soothing mechanism and help heal the hurt of porn as a competing attachment in couples therapy.”
—Alyssa Gavulic, PhD, Psychotherapist, Niceville, FL
“A wonderful resource for any professional working with couples worried about porn addiction. I appreciated seeing how the therapist created opportunities for the couple to interact and exchange views, which is a big piece of couples work. Great demonstration of techniques you can use to help couples openly discuss their fears and struggles related to porn addiction.”
—Andy Felton, PhD, Assistant Professor, University of Wisconsin-Stout
“It is beautiful to see how elegantly Barnett creates safety and makes room for vulnerability to help this couple heal some of the hurt they're feeling and experience a bonding moment. Barnett is very structured in his work, weaving the addictive process into the cycle, while working on the significant attachment injury that porn addiction causes. This is such a clear demonstration of EFT in action—working on the cycle, accessing attachment emotion, weaving the addictive process into the cycle and working with an attachment injury—very moving.”
—Dimitrij Samoilow, ICEEFT-certified EFT-trainer and clinical psychologist, Oslo, Norway
“Couples suffer when a partner turns to pornography, and stops sharing their sexual energy in intimacy. Emotionally Focused Therapy helps couples process the unique attachment injuries caused by porn addiction. Sex therapists and couples’ therapists, along with students and educators will find this video useful.”
—Carlos Del Rio, PhD, Couples and Family Therapist, Assistant Professor of Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Bellevue University
“Very helpful in delineating the layers of emotional vulnerability and relational connectedness that are necessary to work through the pain that porn addiction can have on relationships. An informative video for any clinician trying to navigate how to humanize the use of porn as a self-soothing mechanism and help heal the hurt of porn as a competing attachment in couples therapy.”
—Alyssa Gavulic, PhD, Psychotherapist, Niceville, FL
“A wonderful resource for any professional working with couples worried about porn addiction. I appreciated seeing how the therapist created opportunities for the couple to interact and exchange views, which is a big piece of couples work. Great demonstration of techniques you can use to help couples openly discuss their fears and struggles related to porn addiction.”
—Andy Felton, PhD, Assistant Professor, University of Wisconsin-Stout
“It is beautiful to see how elegantly Barnett creates safety and makes room for vulnerability to help this couple heal some of the hurt they're feeling and experience a bonding moment. Barnett is very structured in his work, weaving the addictive process into the cycle, while working on the significant attachment injury that porn addiction causes. This is such a clear demonstration of EFT in action—working on the cycle, accessing attachment emotion, weaving the addictive process into the cycle and working with an attachment injury—very moving.”
—Dimitrij Samoilow, ICEEFT-certified EFT-trainer and clinical psychologist, Oslo, Norway
“Couples suffer when a partner turns to pornography, and stops sharing their sexual energy in intimacy. Emotionally Focused Therapy helps couples process the unique attachment injuries caused by porn addiction. Sex therapists and couples’ therapists, along with students and educators will find this video useful.”
—Carlos Del Rio, PhD, Couples and Family Therapist, Assistant Professor of Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Bellevue University