By Dan Wile, PhD
on 4/16/11 - 11:40 AM
Ever wonder how to help your high conflict couples turn high-velocity attacks into opportunities for intimacy and connection? Collaborative Couple Therapist Dan Wile has some tips.
By Sue Johnson, EdD
on 10/27/10 - 9:33 AM
It is pretty clear from the research that focuses on how change happens in therapy that emotional engagement is essential for significant change to occur. This is true in individual therapy (for example, research by Castonguay and by Beutler) and it is certainly true in couple therapy (research by EFT therapists like myself). So what happens in an intervention like Emotionally Focused Couple therapy when one person emphatically denies or avoids emotion? The Boy Code insists that men are at...